Do Women Really Like Men With Money, Or Do They Seek Something Deeper?
A Common Belief And A Deeper Question
Women only like men who have money.
When we state this sentence plainly, it becomes very normal for us to see women as puppets who get mesmerized by pieces of paper or numbers in a bank account.
But what is behind this?
An Everyday Observation
Why does a woman, sitting in a café and drinking her cup of milky coffee, look at the man stepping out of a luxury car and even smile at him, but not look at the man walking by in old clothes, holding Dostoevsky’s Crime and Punishment in his hand, with messy hair?
This Is Not An Unchangeable Law
First of all, this is not an unchangeable law.
Here I am giving men a very big secret.
Changing this situation is completely in your hands.
Now I will explain, one by one, how this can change.
The Historical Background Women Carry
Women have been deprived of property rights for centuries.
Women have not been employed in jobs with regular income for hundreds of years.
Women are the last group to be able to receive credit in the history of banking.
Therefore, we cannot dismiss a woman’s relationship with money by simply saying,
“We are human, as men we are tired of women’s love for money, women love money, women only like men who have money.”
Survival Comes Before Romance
First of all, women demand from men, according to the situation, the basic necessities needed for the continuity of life.
If bread is needed, they want bread; if eggs are needed, they want eggs; if the baby needs diapers, they want diapers; and if money is needed to buy these things, they want money.
In the 2000s, for a woman to survive and to continue the human species, she unfortunately needs money to buy the materials she needs, and this money comes from only three sources:
- From her boss if she works for someone, or from her customers if she runs her own business.
- From her father or husband if she is a house daughter.
- From the state if she is in a foster home or if she is a civil servant.
What This Is Really About
Look, there is no “falling in love” here.
The source of the money has nothing to do with how many books he has read, whether he is a good person, whether he is rude, where the abundance of yogurt comes from, or who owns the vineyard.
Here there is only a woman’s instinct to survive and, of course, the instinct to feed and keep alive the offspring she has the potential to give birth to.
How The Female Brain Evaluates Security
Therefore, a woman’s brain analyzes:
If he has money, he can feed my children.
If he is tall, he has a higher chance of finding a job.
If he is handsome, he may earn more money.
If he drives a luxury car, he must also have a house; if I hide behind him, I can stay alive longer.
Institutions And Masculine Power
This applies to individuals just as much as it applies to institutions.
Women know that they can keep their basic needs most secure within the most masculine institutions.
The most masculine institution is the state; that is why women who have become civil servants do not easily quit their jobs even if they get married.
It is not because they love their managers or because they believe they are doing a very meaningful job.
They do not leave their workplaces or their husbands—who provide security for themselves and their children—unless there is a more secure environment.
Important Clarification
These statements contain broad generalizations.
There can always be exceptions; cultural, economic, or religious value systems can cause variations in women’s behavior, and this must be stated before continuing.
A Better Question To Ask
So, if the fundamental issue is security, would it not be wiser to focus on creating a world where women see men not as money safes that might meet their needs but as actual human beings?
The Three Fundamental Needs
Beautiful women, long-legged women, petite women, young and middle-aged women, large-breasted and blue-eyed women, blondes and brunettes—all of them have three unchanging fundamental needs.
When these three fundamental needs are guaranteed, comparing one man to another becomes meaningless.
In that case, the criteria will change.
So what are these three basic needs:
- Healthy food for all women
- Safe living spaces for all women
- Education about the meaning of life, which we call the “love your neighbor as yourself” education
What Happens When These Needs Are Guaranteed
Security is possible for a woman only when these three fundamental needs are guaranteed.
In that case, she will not care how much money you have, because she can always access healthy food.
In that case, the model of the car you drive will have no importance, because she already has a safe home.
In that case, the more of a gentleman you are, the more you read, the better you treat others, the more your chances will increase.
Competition Disappears When Needs Are Equal
Because while her neighbor increases her children’s chances of survival by sending them to private schools, she no longer needs your income to compete by sending her children to the same school.
Because now all colleges and all schools provide the same education: the “love your neighbor as yourself” education.
How This Looked In The Past
Women have, since the beginning of human existence, instinctively sought the most suitable environment for the continuation of the human species.
The form and method of this have changed in every era.
For example, in my grandmother’s time, the most beautiful girl in the village was given to the one who had the most fields; to the family whose barns that year were filled with apples and walnuts.
What Women And Their Families Actually Want
What do women want?
It is not enough for only the woman to want this—what do that woman’s parents want?
You can list this as gold, money, bride price, engagement and wedding ceremonies, household appliances.
But all of it actually boils down to guaranteeing their three basic needs:
- Always being able to access healthy food for themselves and their neighbors
- Having a safe living space of their own, and the same for their neighbors
- A meaningful life: living in a correct environment where they want for others all the good things they want for themselves
Why Things Look So Distorted Today
Today, it is not easy to provide women with this assurance unless men organize among themselves.
That is why you may see women displaying even the most unsuitable behaviors just to temporarily obtain a small part of this security.
Likewise, you may see men who take advantage of the lack of these guarantees and who have no value other than their money.
Equality Changes Everything
When men establish equality among themselves, they will also be equal in the eyes of women.
So what should men do?
A Sentence That Needs To Change
First, replace the sentence
“Women only like men who have money”
with
“Women only like men who are capable of organizing and thinking clearly enough to guarantee their three basic needs.”
A Practical Vision
Cover the earth with food forests, and fill every square meter of soil you see with edible plants until this is achieved.
Make sure the women in your community are always fed with the best food.
Instead of asking local authorities for insecure jobs, demand equal land ownership from the country in which you are a citizen.
Equality is very important.
If your neighbor has ten acres and you have only five hundred square meters, a woman will logically choose the one with ten acres.
Not because she wants to harm you, but because she loves her potential children more than she loves your feelings or your male pride.
Land, Not Money, Defines Belonging
Remove from your mind the false belief that this is about money.
The only indicator that makes you a citizen of a country is whether you own land on that country’s soil.
If you are not the owner of the land, being born in that country makes you only a paper citizen.
That is why you often hear this phrase:
“It is not where I was born, but where I am fed that matters.”
Building A Different Future
Cover these lands with food forests and build beautiful homes with your own hands from natural materials.
Repeat the “love your neighbor as yourself” spiritual education every day, and constantly monitor these areas of abundance with AI-assisted cameras.
Then show this exemplary life to the most beautiful, the longest-legged, the most virtuous girls of the village.
They will not ask how much money you have in the bank.
They will look into your eyes and place a warm kiss on your lips.
Strength Redefined
They will think they have found someone strong enough to feed their offspring.
They will look not at your muscles, but at your heart.
A strong man is someone who can resist the animalistic instinct of wanting to be superior to his friend, someone who lives to guarantee the three basic needs even if it goes against his own self-interest.
The Real Problem
The problem is not that women fall in love with money.
The problem is that the three basic needs are not guaranteed for both men and women.
Unless men organize among themselves to demand equality in the three basic needs, women will continue to do whatever is necessary to survive and will continue to instinctively choose the stronger one.
And this is not only true for women; men also always choose the stronger option.
A Final Responsibility
We cannot blame women or men for choosing the more guaranteed option.
But we can question why we do not provide this guarantee to one another, and we can blame ourselves for that.
Once we accept our mistake, changing it with the right solution is only a matter of moments.
If men want to change this lifestyle, they can start today.